12 Years Have Come and Gone So Fast.
Kyle and I recently celebrated (by celebrated I mean we gave each other cards and said, "Happy Anniversary" to each other. That is as good as it gets after 12 years and 5 kids. Oops...I also got beautiful flowers the next day because our anniversary was on Sunday so they were delivered on Monday) our 12th anniversary. My oh my how time does fly! I can't believe it has been that long. It still feels like there is so much to learn about each other. I still get that weird feeling every once in awhile...the feeling where I look at this husband sitting next to me and I think, "Who are you? I don't even know who you are." I am so glad that Heavenly Father saw fit to bless me with this wonderful husband. He does so much for our family and usually does it with no thanks at all. He gets my witty humor (well, I think it is witty), he lets me take off without the kids when I need it, he forgives my shortcomings, he sits in the car in the heat and waits for me after church while I "visit" (he doesn't like it, but he does it), he thinks I am beautiful (let's not forget...beauty is in the eye of the beholder), he puts the kids in their place when they talk back to me, he loves our kids and loves to spend time with them, he has been pretending since after Josh (#3) was born that he didn't want anymore kids, but it was him that decided to go for #5 (Eli (#4) was my idea), he is a great friend and wants me to do the things he loves like golf (bless his heart...I will never golf...but he wants me too...that is love), he is a great man and I am one LUCKY girl.
Memories from September 16, 1995:
1. Kyle's really bad haircut. It was bad, but it could have been worse. My brother, Keith got married a couple of months before us and he decided to use the Flow-bee (for those who don't remember this contraption...it is a little vacuum that sucks your hair into a tube where it is then cut) to cut his own hair right before the wedding. Needless to say, it didn't go well and he got married with a shaved head.
2. I woke up early that morning and assumed I would be very nervous, but I wasn't. I was very calm and felt a sense of peace.
3. After getting dressed in the Bride's Room at the Salt Lake Temple, I was taken into the room where the grooms wait for the brides to get ready. When I walked in, there were all these very nervous young men and when Kyle saw me he had such a look of relief on his face. It was so cute. I will never forget that moment. I could tell he was nervous, relieved, and excited all at the same time. He smiled at me, took my hand and we were escorted out of that room. All the other men looked disappointed that they had to wait longer.
4.Kyle and I were taken to the Celestial Room and told to wait and someone would come and get us when it was time. Well, we sat and waited and waited and waited. Other couples were coming and going and there we sat. We starting getting nervous...like maybe they had decided we weren't worthy of this wedding or something. Finally, someone came and got us and our wedding started half an hour late. It turns out that the sealing in front of us hadn't gone well and the bride decided half way through the wedding that she was making a mistake and she didn't want to get married. (Kyle...remember the nose hair?)
5. My big, tough husband didn't bawl his eyes out during the ceremony like I did, but when I looked at him across the altar, he had one tear running down his cheek. The thought of it still chokes me up.
6. Many wonderful things said and promises made during the sealing.
7. We took a nap together in between the wedding and reception.
8. At the reception, my sister, Kathy was helping me pin my dress so it would stay up all night and she pricked her finger on the safety pin and got blood on my wedding dress. Kathy was horrified. My mother-in-law came up with the idea to cover the spot in baby powder and it worked. You couldn't even tell there was a spot. Seemed like a big deal at the time, now it is just a funny memory.
9. Leaving the reception together. It was strange that we had no parents to be accountable to. We could just leave together. It was wonderful.
10. We were so exhausted when we got to our hotel. When we got to our room, there were chocolate covered strawberries waiting for us and some lovely robes to wear. We slept like babies that night.
I have many more memories of that day, but those are some of my favorites. It seems like only yesterday, but it seems like a lifetime ago. We have been so blessed since that day.
I LOVE YOU KYLE!
P.S. I hardly recognize the people in that picture. We were so young...and thin...and naive...and clueless...and faithful.